Below are some of the questions we hear most often. If yours is not here, please reach out and we will be glad to help.
What is mediation?
Mediation is a voluntary, informal process for resolving disputes. As mediators, we do not make decisions or impose a settlement. Our job is to facilitate your discussions and help you negotiate a resolution you both find acceptable. We do not provide legal advice or represent either of you. For more on the process, the Florida Courts also publish helpful information online.
How does mediation work in a divorce?
You and your spouse meet with the mediators in a confidential setting and work toward an agreement on the issues in your case. The mediators may meet with you together, individually, or move back and forth between you. Mediation can take more than one session depending on the complexity of your situation and how quickly the two of you reach agreement.
What issues does divorce mediation cover?
The most common topics are parenting (parental responsibility and time-sharing), equitable distribution of marital assets and debts, alimony, and child support. You can also use mediation to settle any other matters the two of you want to address.
Is everything we discuss confidential?
Yes. Confidentiality is central to mediation. We treat the information disclosed before and during mediation as confidential, except where disclosure is required or permitted by law, and everyone who attends is expected to do the same. That confidentiality is what allows both of you to speak openly.
Who can attend a mediation session?
Participation is generally limited to the two spouses. If you both agree, other people who are important to the process may attend, and we ask that this be arranged in advance. We recommend that children not be brought to mediation sessions.
What about financial disclosure?
Before your divorce is final, each of you will fully disclose your financial information to one another and to the court. The information falls into four broad categories - income, debts, assets, and expenses - so it helps to begin gathering documents early. If you have minor children, financial affidavits are part of the process.
Is mediation right for every couple?
Not always. Mediation may not be the right path if either spouse needs legal protection from the other, if there is a history of domestic violence or coercion, if one spouse is unwilling to share financial information, or in certain situations involving child support deviations or military benefits. In those cases we will point you toward more appropriate resources.
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